A bit of a diversion from weightloss and veganism but I thought I would do a little update about my ongoing quest to be a minimalist (or at least get rid of a high percentage of my uneeded stuff).
After discovering the minimalists back in 2016 (and having read zen habits and becoming minimalist for a year or two), I took part in a very intense first round of the mins game and got rid of over 1000 things. Way more than required, it’s supposed to be one thing on day one, two on day two etc. Then I signed up to a Facebook group at the end of 2016, first of all to get rid of 2017 things in 2017, and now 2018 things in 2018. In 2016 I only managed a pitiful 680 things which took my total up to 1680.
This year so far I am at 1371, taking my ongoing total to 3052! That shocks me to even type! I was not a hoarder, although that number makes it seem from the outside like I was, although apparently an average American house has 300,000 items, I can’t find a similar statistic for UK but I can’t see it differing too much. I did however have an issue with the what if’s, the I might need this one day, the just in case. My mother was very like this too, she had multiple versions of pretty much everything she owned, and then barely used any of them. When she died I was left to deal with with wardrobes full of new clothes with the tags on. I don’t think I was extreme as her, but clearly there was some kind of issue. I know I was very stressed out with my house. I found that I barely ever reached proper cleaning, most of the time I had was spent putting stuff away.
You may wonder what it is these 3052 things have been? A whole variety of things such as –
Clothes, books, dvd’s, cd’s, videos, games, games consoles, shoes, toys (so many toys), fridge, washing machine, tv, computers, laptops, cables, connectors, decorations, a bed, shelving units, chairs, ornaments, odd socks, tickets, photos (I scanned them and saved them online), drawings the kids did (I took photos of them too), a breadmaker, punch bag, skin care products,a rowing machine, old makeup, jewellery, fancy dress outfits, clothes that are too big, plates, mugs, forks and knives, cameras, camping equipment, a microwave, artwork, and even a car.
What have I gained? A level of peace regarding my house that is better than it has ever been. Today I was feeling on edge, I’m not good with clutter, (I have no idea how I managed years ago, in fact, I didn’t, I was severly stressed and had extended bouts of depression). I’m on another push to get rid of more things, and when that happens there tends to be piles or bags of things around the place. I set a timer today and got my house to comfortable within 90 minutes. That may seem a long time but I don’t have a lot of opportunity to clean during the week, and that included doing washing too, for me this is great.
What did I do with everything? I gave a lot to charity, some I sold and the rest I binned. Not very minimalist to bin things, but I am comitting to not replacing these items, if they are of no use to anyone else then I just want them out of my house.
What is my end goal? I’m not sure. I doubt I will aim for a specific number of belongings, and I doubt my house will ever look typically minimalist. Minimalism for me may be different that minimalism for others. Add to that my husband isn’t totally on board (although isn’t completely against it). However, the less things I have the more content I seem to be. I’m not against spending money, but for me it should be well spent, not frivolous, I want to make sure I really want something before I buy it. Add to this we are in the process of both attempting to buy a house and paying off some minor debt, and really, every single purchase I make must be justified to myself.
I would recommend minimalism to every single person reading this. I don’t know enough about capitalism to say I’m against it, and I’m sure it has done great things for the world, but I feel that across the board people focus too much on stuff, how much stuff they own, how much it costs, how that looks to others, their status in society. I may be called naive, but I feel we would be in a lot happier world if instead of focusing onstuff and status we took a step back and saw consumerism for what it is, an industry aimed at us getting to spend money, not in any way to make us happier.